Love is Such a short word. Should be simple. Should be as clear as the spelling. But we are finding out in life that this word and the essence of it is more complex for some and simplier for others. In School we use to have that thing called a crush. Some called it “Puppy Love”. The amazing thing about it is that it is all of the above. Everyone wants to be loved and accepted. Our faws and all. We want to be embraced physically, mentally and emotionally. But it is hard to find someone that will.

Is this Love? For the Right Person

Some say that you will change for the right person. Some say if you have to change for that person they are not the right person. As if there is something inside of them that is waiting for the missing piece. That piece that will cause maturity and responsibility to be activated. This “change thing” can be touchy for alot of people. Truthfully all of us change when we get in a new relationship. Whether it may be maturity level. Where you may become more responsible and stable. Hurt and pain changes you. May cause you to put your guard up or become more aware of your vuneralbilities. Or the change can just simply be adjusting to something new. It’s when a person sets out to change a person. That’s when it gets crazy.

Accept me for who I am. Even though who you are is destroying you. You must understand that it is not you job to change or save people. You want a healthy relationship. Acknowledge to red flags. That’s where you make the decision to move past that and find someone one new! Compatibility is important.

Can Love be found here? The Table

At one moment the world was talking about the table. What do you bring to the table? Some said I am the table. It’s a wave. So I ask since we went into this table discussion. What type of table are you? HA HA.

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For Fun: Which Table are You?

• End table: Catch all, Get in where you fit in,
• Bedside Table: Intimate, Passionate,
• Dining Table: Family, Unity, Priority
• Coffee Table: Comforting, The Center, bring Balance
• Serving Table: Service to your partner, Care Taker, Non praise seeker
• Sofa Table: Just there for looks, no purpose to the unit, Could take or leave.
• Card Table: extrovert Game Player, If you feel played you ready to play the game
• Folding Table: introvert Involved when needed. Not needed you retreat no problem.

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Maybe it’s in My Dreams! Adam was Sleep

The Pastors and Ministers think they have the answer. When the bible talks about Marriage and Haven’t really talked about the courtship. It never talked about compatibility and who had table and who was the table. Abraham had sex with his wife after his mother died and that was marriage. Jacob wanted one of his cousins. He married the oldest daughter as a condition made by his uncle before he could marry the other. And the first marriage was Adam and Eve. Adam was in a comma when she was made. And the Virtuous women was not a real woman. Proverb 31: 1.The words of king Lemuel, the prophecy that his ^amother taught him. But that’s not the point.

The Point

What do you need? Some people need a little and some need alot. Depending on what you have experienced. Some people find out their definition of love is very different for someone else’s. Some people have experience love as gifts. Some as touchy feely affections and emotions. There are some that see love as sacrifice for another. And again acceptance. But your best believe everyone has had an example. When your experience that person and there example is not close to yours you can do one of two things. Run if its toxic or stay and test it out if its worth the new experience! But you may have to change.

Thanks for Reading! I’m just processing thoughts!